许多实验表明,三四岁以后儿童的心理向更复杂的方向和更高水平发展,会更多地体察他人的心理状态和信念。所以,父母和老师要重视体验教育。许多父母在与孩子玩捉迷藏的游戏时,会有这样有趣的发现:当两三岁的孩子藏好以后,父母如果故意大声地问一句:“躲好了吗?”孩子因为看不到别人,就认为别人也找不到自己,往往会大声回答:“藏好了!”年龄大一些的孩子就不会上当了。这是因为三岁以前孩子的心理体验以自我为中心居多,还不会体察别人的感受。许多实验表明,三四 Many experiments show that the psychology of children after the age of three or four develop towards more complicated directions and higher levels, and they will become more aware of others’ psychological states and beliefs. Therefore, parents and teachers should pay attention to experience education. When parents and children play hide-and-seek, many parents find this interesting discovery: When two or three children are hiding, parents deliberately loudly ask: “Are you hiding?” “Because the child can not see Others, think others can not find themselves, often loudly answer: ”hidden! " Older children will not be fooled. This is because the child’s psychological experience before the age of three is mostly self-centered and does not understand the feelings of others. Many experiments show that three or four